I’m not a married woman, nor am I an experienced (insert singular word equivalent to female dog). I just have a little attitude on things. Well, I’m definitely not trying to be cocky or anything; just trying to voice out.
So, here goes. It’s my time in life where I go though bad dates, embarrassing moments and all that. Life isn’t exactly any easier on me than anyone of you out there. When it comes to relationships, I’m no expert either. BUT! One thing’s for sure, I try to make the best of it. I’ve been through a few of them and let me tell you, none of any of the guys I’ve dated were even a tad bit alike. They were all distinctly different; different style, different way of taking a relationship, different manners; DIFFERENT. Well, what I’m trying to say is, I think that relationships should be like a subject. Something that you have to feel to understand. Something that you need time to master, if that’s even possible. Every time I end or start a new relationship is sort of shoots me with this bolt of idea about myself. It just makes me understand a level more about myself and about the things that I want and or need in life. I am one of those people who don’t actually support the whole, “I’m only going to date one person and marry him/her”. No offence to anyone who says things like that because I don’t think I have a right on your lives but more that I have my own opinion that it’s not that accurate or useful to life. My theory is simple and commonly used. It’s that one must learn from one’s mistake. I’m not telling you to go date every person in the world. I’m just saying to be open and not tie yourself down to a “type” but try to give yourself a chance to experience something different in a person. For example, after dating this really “sticky” (naggy, controlling) type of guy I realize that I like attention but not overpowering. It just goes to show how much you can actually learn about yourself if you just try.
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